I agree you do sound cocky....COACKES DO NOT LIKE THAT FIRST OF ALL!!! ALSO, I would first try out for high ranked soccer clubs in your area... scouts go out at games at early ages looking for players.
Your 13 play in HS and see what you can do with the older more physical kids before thinking of collage, yes collage thats where you need to look at before being a pro. 1/16,000 make the pros in soccer. If your in a small school and feel your not being noticed then get a video made of you playing in several games, make sure it shows your over all skills, trapping, ball handling, shooting and defencive skills. Send it to some of the schools in the area along with collages you would like to go to.
D2 & D3 schools use one or two scouts in a region if the collages think your good enough then they will contact the scouts to look you over.
Well if your soooo good then you should be on a good club team, which is the best way to get noticed. Your club should be going to teh good tournaments, in region 1, the nig ones are Jefferson cup and WAGS. The NC tourney is good as well. But, focus on getting better right now, not college, at least not yet. Most colleges start recruiting in your softmore/junior year. If your an allstar maybe in freshman year. If your good enough, try out for you state's ODP team. The regional tourneey is a SPECTACULAR way to get noticed, thousands of recruiters are their, plus its great ttraining.