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  • How do I instill a winning attitude as a coach and still make the game FUN for the kids?

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Gar Seigla
Gar Seigla
Baseball, Softball, Coaching

How do I instill a winning attitude as a coach and still make the game FUN for the kids?

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  • Sdkhfi Ldifjl
    Sdkhfi Ldifjl
    Answered April 13, 2009
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    Well as a kid my age my coaches like to make it fun by putting fun drills in the practice as well as making us better it just depends on the age you are trying to coach.

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  • Sandy Campbell
    Sandy Campbell
    Answered April 13, 2009
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    As a coach I play games that is competitive. Challege them and have fun.
    At a certain age they have to realize that winning is important, but having fun while you are playing, but still take it seriously makes winning a great experience.

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  • Tony Qualin
    Tony Qualin
    Answered April 13, 2009
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    Striving to be the best team on the field, on any given day can and should in it's self be fun. Winning is important! if it were not, we wouldn't keep score. Having fun is also important. If it's not fun, why would they play at all. I have seen teams that almost always win, and yet the players don't seem to be having a very good time. I have seen teams that do not win often and yet seem to really enjoy themselves. I think that coaches should try and make practice fun. If it's fun, they will want to practice more and they will practice with more intensity. This will lead to player improvement and that might lead to more "W's"

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  • Lisa Spesard
    Lisa Spesard
    Answered April 18, 2009
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    Try competitive drills, time drills, team drills and the like. Also set the girls up to fail...by that I mean show them that winning is definitely worth working for and that it's definitely feels better than losing (an example would be letting a runner start at half way to get to second for a double play challenge. Change the teams too, a lot of kids choose their own partners...so rotate make sure that the best kids aren't always together and/or that the same teams don't win every time.
    The fun part comes when they think about it later and that they won one...or two with a different set of team mates. The skills should be in short spurts, only play for a short period of time. The drills I found that help the fun factor are tag with helmets (which helps agility). The kids like seeing who throws the farthest which shows you who your best outfielders might be or who throws most accurately...same kind of deal.
    I won't always make my practices all softball they could play soccer for conditioning maybe or a field trip to a college game (they're very very inexpensive to get into comparatively speaking); checking with the school to see if they have an autograph time before or after the games...it's all about making them feel good about softball and themselves.

    You having fun is contageous too remember!

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  • Stacie Mahoe
    Stacie Mahoe
    Answered April 29, 2009
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    Great answers so far. Another thing I like to do is test...do "challenges" with them where there is a measurable "score." Test them and record their score...then test them again later in a few weeks. Players are motivated by seeing themselves get better. They are challenged by that and usually enjoy the challenge.

    Even if it's something like time down the line to first. I find players put forth more effort and enjoy it more when they know I'm timing. Then knowing that we'll do it again later pushes them to constantly try to get better.

    There are a number of ways you can "test" different softball skills so that it's fun for players, they can see themselves improve, and they have a more tangible reason to push in practice in between "tests."

    But yes, playing games and having competitions in practice is also great. It helps players raise their efforts to another level, it adds game-like pressure to their practices which makes performance in games easier, and it improve their skills all at the same time without you having to constantly "be on their back" to try hard or to do better.

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  • William Ganiko
    William Ganiko
    Answered June 15, 2009
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    love the kids as you'd love your own! you'll do things for them/with them that you never thought......they'll respond! win or lose, you'll be teaching them something they'll never forget! good luck

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  • Patrick Cohn
    Patrick Cohn
    Answered June 17, 2009
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    I think you focus on helping your kids improve confidence and have confidence in their ability to execute plays and play well, but without the expectation (pressure) they have to win.

    Patrick Cohn
    Mental Game Coach

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  • Keith Magee
    Keith Magee
    Answered July 05, 2009
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    Appeal to the pride of the child... be better than the rest through practice, dedication, and teamwork.. be known as the most dedicated player on the most dedicated team, and you will be a winner, regardless of the final score.

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  • Dwight Taylor
    Dwight Taylor
    Answered July 09, 2009
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    Add different drills, and make it competitive and challenging in practice.
    You as a coach will get the best out of kids when the game is fun.
    Win or lose as long as you give it your all every game, you are a winner.
    Go get'em Coach!

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  • Angie Wright
    Angie Wright
    Answered July 16, 2009
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    idk did ot read.

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  • Andy Fry
    Andy Fry
    Answered July 19, 2009
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    Attitude is Every Thing. Win or Lose

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  • Jack Houston
    Jack Houston
    Answered August 13, 2009
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    Gar,
    The 3 things most youth athletes want out of sports are: to know that they are getting better, to know that their coach cares for them, and most importantly, to have fun. Yes, striving to win is an important part of sports, and you can teach your kids this by using "the games approach" to coaching. Check it out on-line for its methods.

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  • Sara Vicente
    Sara Vicente
    Answered August 26, 2009
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    I would take them to a good ASA tournament or college game to see what could lie ahead for them in softball. Then play games that could help improve their skills. When I was in 12u, my coaches said that if we run rule a team then we get icecream!

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  • Reylene Abbott
    Reylene Abbott
    Answered November 17, 2009
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    Always be positive even if they screw up point out what they did wrong then what they did good

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  • Victoria Mirabella
    Victoria Mirabella
    Answered November 21, 2009
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    avoid yelling a lot and even when the kids mess up just keep that motivated and tell them to keep practicing add some fun games to practice that will make them keep coming but it will also make them work hard htis is coming from kid experiece on sports teams good luck

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    1. ya i dont lik yelling :)
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  • Megan Elizabeth Maassen
    Megan Elizabeth Maassen
    Answered December 30, 2009
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    Well in softball we usually do like drills to help us improve in the games and at the end(10-15 minutes) we do some fun games related to the sport that we are in.

    ~Megan

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  • Lightning Basketball Wisconsin
    Lightning Basketball Wisconsin
    Answered January 13, 2010
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    Well my experience has been with girls, and there are many things that you have to do to motivate depending on the team. #1 dont point out bad things, tell them what you want from them and point out the good things they do, #2 let them know when they work hard it pays off, #3 team building- look at making practice fun don't always work on softball, take em somewhere else and do volleyball or basketball or dodgeball Make it fun when girls have fun they work harder. Always take in knowledge from every where you can you will never be able to learn enough and there is always a great idea out there just open your eyes and ears to everyone you can. Talk to other coaches they are always willing to help. There is no majic solution, your relationship has to be stern yet fun, confidence in your practice builds confidence in your team, always plan your practices, no down time always moving.

    I hope this somewhat helps.
    GOOD LUCK

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  • Sam Reilly
    Sam Reilly
    Answered February 03, 2010
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    you have to have good drills and oush them during practice but then after you are done play a game or joke around durning the drills but not to much because then they wont practice...and the people that say its not fun those are the people that dont want to be there

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  • Rebecca
    Rebecca
    Answered February 17, 2010
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    as my age i lik competitive things not just drills ..so make lik a relay race or a challenge wher the team that doesnt win has to run a couple laps that always makes me try harder..it is also good to make even teams so the kids dont get upset.

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  • Rebecca
    Rebecca
    Answered February 19, 2010
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    MAKE IT FUN!

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  • Kylie
    Kylie
    Answered April 05, 2010
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    in practice you should have a game that is really fun for your players

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    1. yes I agreee but you might want to make them work hard and reinforce the fact that practice is soposed to be hard and challenging and at time the most boring thing you've done in your life but the harder you practice the funner the games are going to be when you are blowing every body away
      *(;PayDay;)* · April 05, 2010
    2. MAY BE LIKE 4 ON 4 ON 4?!
      Kylie · May 10, 2010
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  • Syd Benewage(steven hyde) Benedick
    Syd Benewage(steven hyde) Benedick
    Answered April 21, 2010
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    I am a soccer player, and my coach does a great job at doing games but getting them ready to play and agressive!

    what u have2 do is make some of a practice games nut they should be againt each other and if they loose than theur should be sprints , pussh ups, sit ups or something like that.

    4 another part of practice i reccomend having them run intensley and then do tecneec
    {excuse me for spelling i am just a kid}

    if they are not into the game and focussed it will not work!!!

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  • Whit
    Whit
    Answered May 21, 2010
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    Kids like me like diving catches

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  • David Smith
    David Smith
    Answered May 29, 2010
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    Try the catch and release drill

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  • Aarpn
    Aarpn
    Answered June 05, 2010
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    just dont be a strickt coach be fun

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  • Jeni Tucker
    Jeni Tucker
    Answered June 12, 2010
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    Do fun drills and when they do something wrong tell them what to do next time.

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  • Joseph
    Joseph
    Answered June 29, 2010
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    do a lot of scrimage

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  • Krissy
    Krissy
    Answered July 12, 2010
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    have a big prize for most valueable player of THAT game but don't leave anyone out still have smaller prizes for everyone else...That's what i would do and I am only 12 and i play with the age group of 12-19.....

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  • Rashell Ramirez
    Rashell Ramirez
    Answered November 07, 2010
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    i say even you lose you could still have fun at the game that your playing

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  • Mackenzie
    Mackenzie
    Answered November 28, 2010
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    just say okay now lets show the team what we are made of.

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  • Duke Barrett
    Duke Barrett
    Answered January 12, 2011
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    sometimes you can make the drill competitive

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  • Gabri
    Gabri
    Answered February 12, 2011
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    Just Encourage the kids to do there best while giving kind feedback

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  • Brandi
    Brandi
    Answered August 14, 2011
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    hi

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  • Mackenzie
    Mackenzie
    Answered October 18, 2011
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    my softball coach taugt us drill and we won the championship by using this drill we had and the game was even if we did lose a game bbecause of the drill the drill is the doulbe play awesomenex. you do is tell the m each to line up and you give them positions like the first person is catcher and the second player 1st base and so on along the positions and when you run out of players the other players become the batters and every time the batters bat the feilders switch positionsand after a few times the catcher becomes the batter and so on.

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  • Al Anquillano
    Al Anquillano
    Answered January 12, 2012
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    Remember, kids will be kids and there will be a certain amount of horseplay. Try to keep it at a minimum without being too harsh or demanding. Be sure you have their attention during initial instruction but let them loose afterwards, just guide carefully them along the way. Be patient, be kind, be consistent, be loud and clear without sounding angry or frustrated. Show the kids you're as happy to be there as they are. If you're having fun, they'll have fun.

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